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Friday, July 21, 2006
i wont say this week was good, but it wasnt exactly bad either.
T & F finals was good.
school was good.
being alone in the room jst made me think of many things in life tat we take for granted most of the time and i got the extract below from yingfen's blog. im sorry if i wasnt meant to get it but it jst made me wonder.
" We all have the right and priviledges to have friends. We can choose our friends based on our own likes and dislikes. We don't have to like the same people everyone else likes or not like someone because they aren't in our "group." Friendship is a personal thing.We can ask from our friends that they be trustworthy. If we share something with them and ask them not to tell anyone, we can expect that they will keep it just between us. We will give them the same right. If they don't, they have betrayed our trust and our friendship.It is okay to be honest with our friends. If they do something that hurts us or concerns us, we can talk to them about it. We will be open to their being honest also. This does not mean it is okay to be mean to each other, just that we can talk honestly about our feelings.We have the right to be respected for the descisions that we make. Some of our friends may not understand the choices we make, but they are our choices. In return, we take responsibility for them. "
how very true.
in life, we come across so many people.
most of them come into our life,
and after awhile,
they leave.
we live in a society in which we mix with many different kind of people.
but out of so many, who are those tat we can truly call a FRIEND ?
who are those that we can actually trust that they will not turn their back on us for personal interest, or those who leave us when im in need? or do they simply become our 'friends' for personal gain ?
i am not afraid to write here for you to read what i think.
u can probably spam and leave insulting comments on my tagboard after reading, or u can rattle on in your blog what u think abt me. that choice. is totally up to you. i admit that i am upset with how you've been acting this whole week. because i always thought that people were wrong about you. my parents, teachers, some people around me have told me not to hang out with you too much cus of some reasons but i always thought u were not what they think u are. maybe they were right afterall ?
" A new commandment i give to you, that you love one another, even as i have loved you that you love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another " John 13:34-35
i am not angry with you, i do not hate you or anything. i am jst upset and disappointed that you turned out like wad many said you were despite the many times in which i chose to think likewise. and, its not just you. your roommate, whom i used to hang out with alot and actually trusted. can turn her back on me just like that.
how great.
but at least i know whatever happens i still have people there for me (:
NICOLE (:
thank you so much for talking to me and being there for me.
you've been there for me all the while and i really appreciate all the things you've done for me. really. thanks (:
VANESSA (:
thanks roommate ! i knw your week wasnt exactly great as well but hey, im always next door (: it was good chatting to you the other day. its been a long time since we've talk to each other like tat yea ? thanks van :D
thats all for now i guess (:
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